结婚之前应该考虑的7个问题

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Getting married is a huge decision. Aside from the common wedding planning blunders, you’ll need to think about the more important aspects of your future together. You’ll want to arm yourself with all the knowledge you can find prior to making the choice, so here are a few things to ask before the big day.
结婚是件大事。除了计划平常的婚礼事宜，你也需要考虑将来生活在一起的更重要问题。你会想用你有的知识经验能帮助做好选择，所哟这里列出了一些在结婚之日到来之前要考虑的几件事。
1. If we both became jobless, what financial resources would we have?
如果我们俩都没有工作，我们还有哪些经济来源？
This question is great, because it shines some light on your partner’s financial attitudes.
这个问题很好，因为它考量的是你的另一边的金钱观。
Although it’s scary to imagine a world without any income, it’s good to know what sort of plan might be plausible.
虽然不敢想象没有收入的情况，但可以帮助弄清还有哪些可行的计划。
2. If I became a full-time professional, could you manage being a full-time parent?
如果我做全职，你能做好全职家长吗？
It’s good to know what your partner’s current views are on the possibility of a role reversal. This can give you insights into your partner’s attitudes about child rearing and professional goals.
这有助于弄清你的另一半对角色转换的观点。这可以让你洞悉你的伴侣对抚养孩子和职业目标的态度。
3. When was the last time you visited a hospital? Why were you there?
上次进医院是什么时候，为什么？
Checking in with the last hospital visit can start a conversation about medical history.
问这个问题可以让你们进行一个对病史的交流。
4. When you reach your current goals, can you see yourself developing new dreams?
当你实现现阶段目标的时候，你能看到自己的下一个梦想吗？
Setting goals, pursuing dreams and creating new dreams are incredibly important in a successful life.
设立目标，追寻梦想，创造梦想对于成功的生活是相当的重要的。
5. If you could only have one spiritual need met, what would it be?
如果你只能满足你自己的一种精神需求，你希望是什么？
It’s valuable to know what your partner’s spiritual needs are.这对于弄清你伴侣的精神需求是至关重要的。
6. Which of my friends deserves the most respect and why?
我的哪个朋友最值得尊重，为什么？
Friends are an important part of our lives. This question focuses on our partner’s attitude about our friends.
朋友是我们生活中最重要的部分。这个问题就是关注伴侣对我们朋友的态度。
7. Which of our parents do you think may cause relationship struggles for us in the future?
你认为你父母中的哪个人可能会在以后引起我们的感情问题？
It can be complicated if one of the parents doesn’t like your partner. It can be managed, but it is important to be able to discuss it openly with each other.
如果某个家长不喜欢你的另一半那会是很恼火的。但也还是可以改善的，但重要的是彼此之间要开诚公布的讨论这个问题。